List of posts

  • By: Cristian Now a days between social media, politics, and the news its tough to be true and stay genuine to who you are. If you’re gay, bi, trans, lesbian, straight, or whatever you identify with, that’s great and awesome! I personally feel the media is trying to sway us into believing their own personal

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  • Love Each Other

    By: Cristian Lesbian, gay, bi, trans, asexual, queer with all these pronouns what happened to being human. What happened to be a good person and treating your neighbor as you would treat yourself? That’s what I think is the problem with this world. I don’t care who you like or love but let’s treat all

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  • Dear Me

    Dear Cristian, You need to relax. Life is way too short to be stressed about things you shouldn’t/can’t change. Setting goals for yourself is important, but enjoying life is too. Even if you can’t take a real vacation, you can do things that bring you joy daily. Small things you do in your daily life

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  • Out of place/M.I.A

    Out of place By: Cristian To be honest I would say all of grade school; I never found my peer group and I was always the loner. I tried multiple activities from karate to musical theater to church but no one wanted me to be their friend. It kept me thinking and wondering what was

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  • The Art of Writing & Healing

    The Art of Writing & Healing By: Cristian Writing, especially late-night writing/journaling has helped me incredibly! Helps me connect with my inner self. (You don’t have to be religious to understand this concept.) We all have trauma from our past and am trying to heal from it one step at a time. Setting goals and

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  • I’ve lost a lot of people in my life by being too insecure; both romantically and not. I’ve had a lot of missed opportunities I could’ve taken if I believed in myself and had the confidence to do so. I want to be like Peter Parker before he puts on his Spiderman suit and after

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  • 29ish to Being 30

    Honestly, I hate it when people say I am not doing my best. Yes, I am taking life step by step (in my own way), and I do struggle with a lot on my plate. I wish I could secretly be Clark Kent and be superman yet am only one person; that’s me. In life

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  • I used to believe I had to have this life figured out That everyone else has it figured out I was just slow compared to other people in life But truth is no one does… Remember when you look at someone on the street, on Facebook or Instagram You’re just seeing the outside version of

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  • Love?

    Last night got blocked once again cause I wasn’t going to give money to someone I just met. Like seriously, I don’t do that. But it does hurt my confidence as a gay men. It happens so often; maybe I don’t deserve true love? I know that isn’t the truth, but its hard not to

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  • Hard feelings

    Honestly its hard to stay strong when you feel your whole support system has gone awry. You have no family to support you emotionally and such. No legit friends to tell you good job or to have your back. No boyfriend or girlfriend to show you love. What do you do when your at the

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